Ex.skill: the AI that resurrects your ex, between ethics and debate
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With the open-source project Ex.skill, available on GitHub, it is now possible to recreate a digital version of an ex-partner using artificial intelligence. Integrated into Claude Code under the name Claude Skill, this tool is launched via the command /create-ex and allows users to build a personalized agent from various personal elements.
How the Ex.skill Tool Works
Ex.skill functions as a code module that generates a personalized agent using data provided by the user. This data includes SMS histories, social media conversations, posts, photos, and narratives of personal memories.
The AI uses this information to mimic the person's communication style, favorite expressions, and to recall shared moments. The tool offers several conversation modes, ranging from light discussions to nostalgic or emotional exchanges. For example, a nostalgic conversation might include shared memories from a first date.
A Tool for "Love Grief"
The creators of Ex.skill present this tool as a means to help users say goodbye to a past relationship. They explain that every relationship teaches us something, and this tool allows users to transfer those memories into a digital neural network, not to cling to them, but to bid farewell.
However, this approach raises questions about how love grief is conceptualized. The developers clarify that the tool is intended for personal reflection and emotional healing, not for harassment or stalking purposes.
Reactions and Controversies
In China, the tool has gained some popularity but has also sparked debates. Some users claim it allows them to express themselves freely, while others fear it may hinder emotional rebuilding and the development of healthy relationships. Ethical and legal concerns are also emerging, particularly regarding privacy and the use of data without consent.
Ex.skill is derived from a previous project, Colleague.skill, designed to generate AI skill modules from professional communications. This project has been adapted for romantic relationships, raising questions about the use of technology in personal contexts.
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